Oh you’re sat there thinking you won’t need this but you will. Its amazing how much aggression you can vent taking the bin out, how the fact that no one has walked the dog is a BIG argument, that after 22 years of togetherness you still compete over who is the more tired (its me, always me by the way!).
Honestly do yourselves a favor and have a chat about what your expectations are regarding family visits, over feeding the baby. You don’t need anything set in stone but it will help to understand that he needs half an hour when he’s home from work to de-stress and your idea of self care is not just limited to having a shower.
Trust me – this is the one to look at.